[6 minute Quick Read]
[Solitude and the Sea – Painting – By Jacques Bodin]
When is the last time, you spent some time with your
thoughts?
thoughts?
In all possibility, you may not remember at all.
Ubiquitous smart screens are encroaching every aspect
of our life. Waiting for a doctor’s appointment, or in Queue for some booking,
or waiting for the bus, or even in restrooms – we fiddle around with our smart-phones.
of our life. Waiting for a doctor’s appointment, or in Queue for some booking,
or waiting for the bus, or even in restrooms – we fiddle around with our smart-phones.
That’s a disaster for deep thinking.
In Lead
yourself first, author – US court judge and Army Veteran argues for
the importance of spending time alone. It’s not only for creative
professionals. It is important for everyone. Spending time alone has benefits like
yourself first, author – US court judge and Army Veteran argues for
the importance of spending time alone. It’s not only for creative
professionals. It is important for everyone. Spending time alone has benefits like
- Simplifying hard problems, one is struggling with.
- The clarity in thinking and writing
- Conveying complex concepts in presentation, speech in
engaging manner. - Excellent regulation of emotions leading to better emotional
intelligence - Build moral courage – look at the life of Martin Luther King, Mahatma
Gandhi, etc. - To strengthen relationships. This sounds odd. But yes, solitude helps to
build close connections.
Cal Newport
argues in digital
minimalism with the example of Lincoln, that Lincoln’s habit of
spending time alone helped save the nation! He further gives many
examples, quotes supporting solitude.
argues in digital
minimalism with the example of Lincoln, that Lincoln’s habit of
spending time alone helped save the nation! He further gives many
examples, quotes supporting solitude.
So, what is Solitude precisely – As defined in
“Lead yourself first” –
“Lead yourself first” –
“Subjective
state in which your mind is free from inputs from other minds”.
So, when you are looking at the iPhone screen, watch
TV, or listening to songs – it violates the idea of solitude even if you are
alone at that time. To take full benefit of Solitude, just remain with your
thoughts, cut-off all kinds of disturbances. Period. Digital Minimalism’s chapter-4 focuses on a
few practices to build solitude and gaining the advantage of it.
TV, or listening to songs – it violates the idea of solitude even if you are
alone at that time. To take full benefit of Solitude, just remain with your
thoughts, cut-off all kinds of disturbances. Period. Digital Minimalism’s chapter-4 focuses on a
few practices to build solitude and gaining the advantage of it.
Practice #1:
Leave your phone at home.
Leave your phone at home.
We are too addicted to the phone. Do we need it? Those
who are born before 1980 must have experienced life without a mobile phone. So,
learn to disassociate from the phone. Maybe while going to class, teaching a
class, for meetings. Just keep it away. If leaving at home is not practical,
then maybe leaving in a vehicle (glove-box) or keeping it at the bottom of your
backpack. That will make it difficult to reach and you will use it only when it
is necessary.
who are born before 1980 must have experienced life without a mobile phone. So,
learn to disassociate from the phone. Maybe while going to class, teaching a
class, for meetings. Just keep it away. If leaving at home is not practical,
then maybe leaving in a vehicle (glove-box) or keeping it at the bottom of your
backpack. That will make it difficult to reach and you will use it only when it
is necessary.
Practice #2:
Take Long Walk.
Take Long Walk.
Walking is often looked like one of the best forms of
exercise. But we often overlook its unique value in building solitude. The
chapter refers to Friedrich
Nietzsche who wrote his landmark essay in just two weeks
attributing credit to walk. He said, “Only thoughts reached with walking
have values”. To maximize the benefits of the walk, take it alone, if
possible, in a scenic place. And keep the phone at the bottom of your backpack
or leave it home.
exercise. But we often overlook its unique value in building solitude. The
chapter refers to Friedrich
Nietzsche who wrote his landmark essay in just two weeks
attributing credit to walk. He said, “Only thoughts reached with walking
have values”. To maximize the benefits of the walk, take it alone, if
possible, in a scenic place. And keep the phone at the bottom of your backpack
or leave it home.
Practice #3:
Write letters to yourself.
Write letters to yourself.
Cal Newport is not advising like writing a diary or
journal. You may use Moleskine like
him or any other notebook. But what he suggests is to write like you are
talking to yourself. This is a great suggestion for clarifying one’s thoughts.
And yes, you have not engaged with another mind also. This perfectly suits the
concept of solitude. Many books advocate the use of writing to clarify one’s
thinking. For example, you can look at the title “Accidental Genius”. I
often scribble my thoughts and it helps. And I am certainly going to get this
idea-note-book.
journal. You may use Moleskine like
him or any other notebook. But what he suggests is to write like you are
talking to yourself. This is a great suggestion for clarifying one’s thoughts.
And yes, you have not engaged with another mind also. This perfectly suits the
concept of solitude. Many books advocate the use of writing to clarify one’s
thinking. For example, you can look at the title “Accidental Genius”. I
often scribble my thoughts and it helps. And I am certainly going to get this
idea-note-book.
[This is my review/summary of Chapter-4 of Cal Newport’s Digital
Minimalism]
Minimalism]
